ABSTRACT

This book focuses on the ubiquitous and powerful effects of ostracism, social exclusion, rejection, and bullying. Human beings are an intrinsically gregarious species. Most of our evolutionary success is no doubt due to our highly developed ability to cooperate and interact with each other. It is thus not surprising that instances of interpersonal rejection and social exclusion would have an enormously detrimental impact on the individual. Until 10 years ago, however, social psychology regarded ostracism, rejection and social exclusion as merely outcomes to be avoided, but we knew very little about their antecedents and consequences, and about the processes involved when they occurred. Furthermore, the literatures of ostracism, social exclusion and rejection have not until now included discussions of the bullying literature.

part I|57 pages

Theoretical Foundations

chapter 2|16 pages

Ostracism

The Indiscriminate Early Detection System

chapter 4|21 pages

The Inner Dimension of Social Exclusion

Intelligent Thought and Self-Regulation Among Rejected Persons

part II|53 pages

Deep Roots of Exclusion: Neuropsychological Substrates of Isolation and Exclusion

chapter 5|14 pages

Adding Insult to Injury

Social Pain Theory and Response to Social Exclusion

chapter 6|18 pages

People Thinking About People

The Vicious Cycle of Being a Social Outcast in One's Own Mind

chapter 7|19 pages

Why It Hurts to Be Left Out

The Neurocognitive Overlap Between Physical and Social Pain

part III|70 pages

Individual and Population Differences and the Impact of Social Exclusion and Bullying

chapter 9|16 pages

The Rejected and the Bullied

Lessons About Social Misfits from Developmental Psychology

chapter 11|14 pages

Coping With Rejection

Core Social Motives Across Cultures

part IV|78 pages

Influences of Rejection on Emotion, Perception, and Cognition

chapter IV 12|12 pages

When Does Social Rejection Lead to Aggression?

The Influences of Situations, Narcissism, Emotion, and Replenishing Connections

chapter IV 13|14 pages

The Social Monitoring System

Enhanced Sensitivity to Social Cues as an Adaptive Response to Social Exclusion

chapter IV 14|15 pages

Social Snacking and Shielding

Using Social Symbols, Selves, and Surrogates in the Service of Belonging Needs

chapter IV 15|19 pages

All Animals Are Equal but Some Animals Are More Equal than Others

Social Identity and Marginal Membership

chapter IV 16|14 pages

Bye Bye, Black Sheep

The Causes and Consequences of Rejection in Family Relationships

part V|70 pages

Effects of Social Exclusion on Pro- and Anti-Social Behavior

chapter 18|10 pages

The Effect of Rejection on Anti-Social Behaviors

Social Exclusion Produces Aggressive Behaviors

chapter 19|14 pages

Rejection and Entitativity

A Synergistic Model of Mass Violence

chapter 20|12 pages

Avoiding the Social Death Penalty

Ostracism and Cooperation in Social Dilemmas

chapter 21|14 pages

The Psychological Impact of Social Isolation

Discussion and Commentary