ABSTRACT

This book will help practitioners overcome one of the leading challenges in couples therapy: working effectively with the male partner. Men have unique needs and psychological issues that many clinicians may not recognize or know how to address. This volume presents chapters by the leading practitioners associated with current therapeutic models, including Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, Imago Relationship Therapy, Integrated Behavioral Couple Therapy, and more. Using in-depth case examples, they demonstrate how their approaches can be adapted to be "male-sensitive" and respond to the ambivalence so many men experience about couples work. Special topics are also addressed, including infidelity, cultural diversity, working with veterans, and fathering issues. This book will enrich therapists’ work with couples, making treatment a welcoming experience for both partners and the treatment process more gratifying for the therapist.

chapter 1|9 pages

Introduction

Setting the Stage

chapter 2|23 pages

The Challenges of Conducting Male-Sensitive Couples Therapy

Common Pitfalls and Clinical Recommendations

chapter 3|19 pages

Behind the Mask

A Primer on Understanding the Male Partner in Couples Therapy

chapter II|152 pages

Theoretical Models

chapter 4|21 pages

Early Life Memories

A Male-Friendly Approach to Facilitating Couple Collaboration

chapter 5|23 pages

Adlerian Couples Therapy

The Case of the Boxer's Daughter and the Momma's Boy

chapter 7|23 pages

Finding the Words

Working with Men in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for Couples

chapter 8|26 pages

Integrative Behavioral Couple Therapy

A Male-Sensitive Perspective

chapter 9|14 pages

The Gottman Method

Theory and Case Study

chapter 10|16 pages

The Pairs Program

Engaging Men Through a Unique Psychoeducational Approach

chapter 13|26 pages

Brothers of Color in Couples Therapy

Managing the Rainfall and Storms of Discrimination and Racism for Latino and African American Men

chapter 15|18 pages

Male-Sensitive Couples Counseling

Fathering Issues