ABSTRACT

Highly Commended in the 2012 BMA Book Awards

We live in a world where bad things can, and do, happen irrespective of whether we are good or bad, whether we consider ourselves lucky or doomed, and with no regard to fairness. Any of us can find ourselves facing redundancy, the breakdown of a relationship, bankruptcy or any number of life changing crises, or supporting someone else who is. And sometimes, no matter how much we might try, there’s nothing we can do to prevent or reduce the problem.

But that doesn't mean you have to be helpless; no matter how bad the situation you're about to deal with, there are things that you can do to become more resilient and that will help you face the storm that's coming towards you or yours.

Using Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT) techniques and the latest developments in mindfulness and acceptance-based approaches, this practical guide will take you through each stage of preparing for, enduring and recovering from a major life crisis helping you better understand what's going on, and providing new tools for dealing with the situation.

When there's a storm coming towards you, and you can't escape it, then you have to prepare to face it. Here's how.

chapter |8 pages

Storms Happen

Introduction

chapter |12 pages

Gale Warning

Realising You're in Trouble

chapter |16 pages

Listening to the Forecasts

Making Sense of It

chapter |16 pages

I Can't Believe It's Going to Hit Us

Getting Used to it

chapter |17 pages

What Should We Do?

Making Decisions

chapter |27 pages

Keeping Going

Managing ‘Normal' Daily Life

chapter |7 pages

Thinking Ahead

Preparing for Afterwards

chapter |38 pages

Riding the Storm

Dealing With the Emotions

chapter |13 pages

The Eye of the Storm

Finding a Quieter Place in the Middle of it All

chapter |17 pages

Rebuilding From Driftwood

After the Event (Assuming You're There)

chapter |5 pages

All the Different Storms

Conclusion